ONLY NOW – 20% OFF on orders over £150

Discount will be automatically applied at checkout

Gift Wish

How to politely ask for money instead of a wedding gift?

When choosing a poem take into consideration how much space you have for it. 

If you want to include more extra information on your insert, we suggest to go with a shorter text.

MONEY POEMS

poem 1

We know it isn’t traditional,

It’s not the way it’s done

But instead of pots and pans

We’d like a little fun!

So if you’d like to give us a gift to celebrate

Some help towards our honeymoon

We would really appreciate!

The choice is yours and we would like to say

That the best gift we could receive

Is you here on our special day!

poem 2

The most important gift to us

Is having you share in our special day.

But if you wish to contribute

In some other way,

We would love a few pennies

To put in our pot

For honeymoon trip

After tying the knot.

Please remember what means the most,

Is that you’re with us to raise a toast!

poem 3

We know its not traditional

And it’s not the way it’s done,

But rather than a wedding list

We’d love a bit of sun.

So if you’d like to give us a gift

And send us on our way,

A donation to our honeymoon

Would really make our day

poem 4

The most important gift to us

Is to have you share our day,

But should you wish to contribute

In some other way,

Then to help us on our honeymoon

In our chosen paradise,

A little extra spending money

Would be really nice.

poem 5

We don’t have a list of pots and pans,

Just hopes and dreams 

and honeymoon plans.

If giving a gift is on your mind,

Then a contribution would be kind.

poem 6

If a gift is on your mind,

A contribution would be kind.

It will help us more than words can say

To celebrate our special day!

poem 7

Much happiness and laughter we share

Our home has been made with loving care

Most things we need we’ve already got

And in our home we can’t fit a lot!

A Post Box we thought would be great

But only if you wish to participate

A gift of vouchers, or even money

We would sincerely appreciate

Then we could replace the old with the new,

We could then look back and say 

It was all thanks to you!

poem 8

We are sending you this invitation

In hope you will join our celebration

But if a gift is your intention

May we take the time to mention

We already have a kettle and toaster,

Crockery, dinner mats and matching coasters.

So rather than something we’ve already got

We would appreciate money for our honeymoon pot.

But most importantly we request

That you join us as our wedding guest.

poem 9

The love of family and friends

Bring happiness that never ends

Each one of you as guests we’ll treasure

You’ll fill our day with so much pleasure

While wedding presents are so nice

Your presence really will suffice

But if a gift is on your mind

Your contribution would be kind

We are saving to buy a home together as you know,

Each welcome gift will help it grow

But the greatest gift is that you’ll say

You’d love to share our wedding day.

poem 10

So what do you get for the bride and groom

Whose house needs things in every room?

When shopping for a present

please don’t be rash

As there is always the option

To just give cash!

We hope you don’t find

Our request to be funny

But we really would appreciate

A gift of money.

poem 11

We haven’t got a wedding list

the reason we’ll explain

is to save you all the hassle

as shopping is a pain

We’ve been together for a while

And have most things we need

So vouchers, cash or cheques

would be gratefully received

The choice is yours, so please don’t fuss

the most important thing of all

Is that you come and celebrate with us!

But, if you’d like to contribute,

to our soft & cosy rooms

Our heartfelt thanks go out to you

with love the Bride & Groom

poem 12

More than just kisses, so far we’ve shared,

Our home has been made with love and care.

Most things we need we’ve already got,

Like a toaster, kettle, pans and pots.

A wishing well we thought would be great,

But only if you wish to participate.

A gift of money is placed in the well,

Then make a wish…….but do not tell.

Once we’ve replaced the old with the new,

We can look back and say

It was thanks to you!

And in return for your kindness were sure,

That one day soon you’ll get

What you wished for!

poem 13

Our life together has already begun,

We have almost everything under the sun.

If you were thinking of buying a gift,

A little extra money would give us a lift.

But most importantly, we request,

You share our day as our wedding guest.

Now that we’ve saved you any fuss,

We can’t wait for you to celebrate with us!.

poem 14

If you were thinking of giving a gift

To help us on our way

A gift of cash towards our honeymoon

Would really make our day

If however it’s a gift you find

Please be assured we will not mind

poem 15

We’ve lived together quite a while

And all the bills are paid

We’ve got our plates, our pots and pans

Our plans have all been made

So if you’d like to give a gift

To help us celebrate

Some money for a honeymoon

We would appreciate

poem 16

We’ve been together a year or two,

We don’t really need anything new.

Yet if a gift is your intention,

We thought that we would mention,

We’d love some pennies to put together,

To save for something that we will treasure.

And just remember, what means the most,

Is that you’re with us to raise a toast!

poem 17

We’ve lived together quite a while

With all our pots and pans,

And as we don’t need homely gifts

We’ve got another plan.

We know it’s not traditional

And not the way it’s done,

But rather than a wedding list

We’d love a bit of sun.

So if you’d like to give a gift

And send us on our way,

A donation to our honeymoon

Would really make our day.

But the choice is really up to you

And we would like to say,

That the best gift we would receive

Is you here on our special day!

poem 18

We’ve been together for a few years

And have a lovely home,

There are not too many items now

That we don’t already own.

So if your thoughts were on a gift,

Your presence will suffice.

But if you really feel the need

A small donation would be nice.

The choice is really up to you

And we would like to say

We hope you come and enjoy yourselves

And have a lovely day!

poem 19

We really hope you can join us

On our special day

You’ll make our memories complete

In every single way.

We do not have a gift list

And we know you’ll understand

Our house and contents are complete

With pots and plates and pans

But should you really want to give

And celebrate this way

A gift of money would be lovely

for a holiday.

poem 20

The love of family and friends

Bring happiness that never ends

Each one of you as guests we’ll treasure

You’ll fill our day with so much pleasure

While wedding presents are so nice

Your presence really will suffice

But if a gift is on your mind

Your contribution would be kind

We have a fund to ease cash flow

Each contribution will help it grow

But the greatest gift is that you’ll say

You’d love to share our wedding day

poem 21

A little note just to say,

What gifts we love for our wedding day.

We have a home and we have a car,

But together we have never travelled far.

Although to have you with us

On our wedding day

Is the best gift of all in every way.

But if you would like

To add to our honeymoon pot

As a gift to us after we tie the knot.

poem 22

As we are blessed with material things,

And all that living together brings,

Your presence as a guest

Is all that we request.

But if a gift is your intention,

We thought that we would mention,

What we would really like for our special day,

Is to top it off with a holiday!

We’d love some pennies to put together,

For a time away that we will treasure.

poem 23

We’re tying the knot

And we just can’t wait,

We knew it would happen

On our very first date.

As we’ve got our home

Dressed up with accessories,

We don’t really think

That a wedding gift list is necessary.

But if you did want to give something

To help us on our way,

Some money for our honeymoon

Would truly make our day!

poem 24

We hope you share our wedding day,

And all the joy it brings,

As for wedding presents

We already have most things.

We’re saving for a rainy day

In our new chapter in life,

Maybe a little trip away

As husband and wife.

So if you would like to give a gift

We would just like to say,

A small donation to our fund

Would really make our day.

poem 25

Name and Name are getting wed

A happy event it must be said.

They are beginning a new life

Looking ahead to be husband and wife.

To help them set up home anew

Now they’ve found pastures new.

To buy sofas, beds and wardrobes too

A gift of money they request of you.

But, most importantly, they request,

That you turn up as their wedding guest.

poem 26

Unsure in our minds, of what we may need,

Not wanting to offend, or show any greed,

We have the essentials to be living in sin,

A kettle, a toaster, and even a bin.

So, money is requested, in order to proceed,

With life’s little luxuries one day we might need.

poem 27

An exciting time is coming our way,

and we can’t wait for you

to share our special day!

We do but have just one request,

and that’s for you to be our guest.

We don’t expect presents or gifts galore,

Laughter and fun is the aim of the day,

so no amount of presents will take this away.

We have our pots, we have our pans

but what we need is a helping hand

So for you we have another request,

after a year of planning a wedding….

we need a rest!

If a gift however you’d like to give,

then please think of us

A honeymoon is just what we need,

so a donation would be gratefully received

But don’t forget above the rest,

we just want you to be our guest!

poem 28

We know it’s traditional to write a list

But in this case there is a slight twist

Our home is complete with the usual stuff

And the things that we have are good enough

Our dream is to honeymoon in a foreign land

And walk along the beach hand in hand

We hope you don’t think of us as being rude

And that our request is not misconstrued

But a contribution to our honeymoon pot

Would be appreciated such a lot

But the most important thing to say

Is that you are there to celebrate our day!

NON – POEMS

text 29

The presence of our friends and family is the greatest gift of all. However, if it is your wish to bless us with a gift, we would greatly appreciate a contribution to our honeymoon fund.

text 30

Whilst your presence is what we wish for.

If you wish to give a gift, a monetary contribution towards our future would be very much appreciated.

text 31

Your presence at our wedding is all that we wish for.

However, if you would like to give a gift, we would be very grateful for a small cash donation towards our honeymoon.

text 32

Please do not feel obligated to buy us a gift, all that we are expecting is you. If you would like to give something, a contribution towards our honeymoon would be greatly appreciated

text 33

No registry here!

We’ve lived together for long enough so have all the cutlery we need! Your presence is enough of a present to us. 

With that said, we know people often include a charming poem about money here, so full disclosure: any gifts of cash will be spent on cocktails on a beach for when we financially recover enough to book a honeymoon!

text 34

No gifts please, your presence is truly enough.

text 35

Please no gifts.

The gift of your presence is all we ask.